Sunday, September 13, 2020

Forgiveness (Idariji)

 

METHODIST CHURCH NIGERIA

DIOCESE OF OSOGBO

TWENTY-FOURTH (24TH) SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME/FOURTEENTH (14TH) SUNDAY AFTER TRINITY, 13TH SEPTEMBER, 2020.

GOD’S WORD TO GOD’S PEOPLE.

THEME:Forgiveness (Idariji)

TEXT: Matthew 18:32&33



"Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, "You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you begged me. Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?"

“Nigba ti Oluwa re pee tan, o wi fun pe, Aa! iwo iranse buburu yii, Mo fi gbogbo gbese ni ji o, nitori ti iwo be mi. Iwo ki isi saanu iranse egbe re gege bi mo ti saanu fun o?”

Forgiveness is often defined as an individual, voluntary internal process of letting go of feelings and thoughts of resentment, bitterness, anger, and the need for vengeance and retribution toward someone who we believe has offended us, including ourselves (Rom.12:17-21) Forgiveness, however, is conditioned on remorse repentance and the willingness to make reparation, or atonement; and the effect of forgiveness is the restoration of both parties to the former state of relationship. Forgiveness, to me as a Christian, is therefore an essential character or quality of Christ's followers for unity and harmony in the Church of God. Of course, relationship cannot be mended and strengthened if our humility and honesty, as Christians, failed to result in forgiveness.

Peter, knowing fully well that human beings are bound to offend or wrong one another, came to Jesus Christ with the issue of sin and forgiveness as contained in the opening verse of our gospel text for today, Matthew 18:21-35. He recognized the risks and dangers involved in human relationship and thus asked Jesus how he should handle them in future when they eventually occurred. The question of Peter in Matthew 18:21 shows some elements of pride in him. In his question, he was sure that his brother would sin against him, but not he against his brother. Secondly, he was asking for limit when the Bible makes it clear that where there is love there can be no limits (Eph. 3:17-19). Considering the teaching of the Jewish Rabbis', that three times of wrong doing was sufficient to retaliate, Peter thus thought he was showing great level of faith and love when he offered to forgive at least seven times. Jesus' reply, “until seventy times seven” (490 times) seemed to be a shocker to Peter. How on earth can one continue to count offense against his brother or sister until 490 times? Indirectly, Jesus Christ was saying love keeps no record of wrongs (1Cor. 13:5). Brothers and sisters, Fathers and mothers, we must however know that love is not blind (Phil. 1:9-10). It only helps us to look away from the wrongs done against us.

Jesus Christ who wants the best for his Church explains further what he meant by forgiveness with the parable of the unforgiving servant in Matthew 18:23-35. This parable shows that if a brother or sister is guilty of a repeated offense, no doubt he/she would find power and strength to overcome such offence through the encouragement of his/her loving and forgiving brethren. Obviously, if we condemn a brother or sister, we may end up bringing out the worst in him/her. But if we forgive them their sin, definitely, we may be helping to bring the best out of them. The parable of the unforgiving servant is therefore meant to illustrate the power of forgiveness among Christians only and not between lost sinners and God (Matt. 18-15&21). It buttresses the fact of an aspect of the Lord's prayer which says, "And forgive us our debts. As we forgive our debtors" (Matt. 6:12). Are you a Christian with forgiving spirit or one who revenges and fight back? Learn to forgive so that you may also be forgiven.

The unforgiving servant is the main character in the parable before us today and worthy of study. In his experience of being forgiven and himself unable to forgive, we can gain some lessons for our Christian race. Let us examine his experience following these three stages:

1.    The servant as a debtor (Matt. 18:23-27). This servant's embezzlement of funds was discovered when his master came for the auditing of his books of account. His dishonesty activities were made open and it was discovered that he had misappropriated one thousand talents which was probably equivalent to over 10million Dollars. He however pleaded for mercy, and promised to pay back if only he could be given enough time, but deep down in his heart he knew that would not be able to pay the debt. The servant was proud and lacked sincere repentance. He was not even ashamed of the fact that he stole the money, rather, he was ashamed because he was caught. Let us note that his master had the legal right to throw him into prison, but he was a man of compassion. He accepted the loss and forgave the servant just as we are being forgiven daily by God who is full of mercy and compassion. Brethren, we are all debtor, how ready are we to regularly service our debt to God and to our fellow human beings? We owe nothing but love, to love God and our fellow human beings (Rom. 13:8).

2.    The servant as a creditor (Matt. 18:28-30). After he had been forgiven, he left the presence of his master only to meet his fellow servant who owed him 100 pence which was about the daily earning of an average worker. The debt which his fellow servant owed him was insignificant compared with what he owed (10million Dollars) his master. Instead of sharing the happiness of his own release with his colleagues, he went straight to maltreat his fellow servant who was unable to pay him his little debt. He could not do to others what he wanted others to do to him. He might have gotten the legal right to also throw his debtor into prison, but he did not have the moral right to do so. Someone who had just been forgiven, should he not also forgive his fellow servant? How do we treat others today, especially when it comes to things which we are also guilty of? Forgive others as we want God to forgive us. We are all creditors; one or more persons may owe us. How do we treat them? (Matt. 6:14&15; Lk. 17:3&4)

3.    The unforgiving servant as a prisoner (Matt. 18:31-34). His master originally delivered him from going into the prison, but he put himself back into it, because of lack of the spirit of forgiveness. The unforgiving servant exercised justice and threw into prison his colleague who owed him and was unable to pay. This act of forgiveness of this servant provoked his master who had earlier forgiven him to revert back to justice. His master did to him what he had done to his colleague. The prison of unforgiving heart has been described as the worst prison in the world. If we refused to forgive others, we are only imprisoning ourselves and causing our own torment. Many of us have received forgiveness, but we have not really experienced forgiveness down deep in our hearts. Thus, we are unable to share forgiveness with those who have offended us. Brethren in the house of faith, let us all learn and accept to share forgiveness with others, even as God is sharing with us every day. Forgiveness is able to bring freedom, joy and rest/peace of mind to us and thereby foster unity among us. “And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave us” (Eph. 4:32)

Let us pray

Rt. Rev. A.K.O. Ogunrinde, JP, FICT.

Bishop, Diocese of Osogbo.

OS-CAN Chairman.

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