METHODIST CHURCH NIGERIA
DIOCESE OF OSOGBO
SEVENTEENTH SUNDAY IN
ORDINARY TIME, 26TH JULY, 2020.
Youth Week Sunday
GOD’S WORD TO GOD’S
PEOPLE.
THEME: “Personal Decision is important in life’s journey.”
“Ipinnu se pataki ninu irin ajo aye.”
TEXT: Genesis 29:18 & 28.
“Since Jacob was in love with Rachel, he told her father,
"I'll work for you for seven years if you'll give me Rachel, your younger
daughter, as my wife... So Jacob agreed to work seven more years. A week after
Jacob had married Leah, Laban gave him Rachel too."
"Jakobu si fe Rakeli; o si wi pe, Emi o sin o ni odun
meje nitori Rakeli, omobinrin re abikeyin. Jakobu si se bee o si se ose re pe:
o si fi Rakeli omobinrin re fun ni aya pelu."
The English word "decision" simply means a
conclusion or resolution reached, either by an individual or a group, after
consideration. According to Cambridge Dictionary, decision is a noun which
means "a choice that you make about something after thinking about several
possibilities." Looking at en.m.wikipedia.org, "decision making is
regarded as the cognitive process resulting in the selection of a belief or a
course of action among several possible alternative options." The same
online source goes further to describe decision making as "the process of
identifying and choosing alternative based on the values preferences and
beliefs of the decision maker" which may be an individual, a group or an
organization. It is however important to note that every decision making
process produces a final choice, which may or may not prompt action. In today's
word of God to his people, personal decisions of Jacob which played great role
in his life journey is what we want to meditate upon. Truly, life is not easy
and whatever it does to us as human beings depends greatly on what it finds in
us. The story of Jacob in Genesis chapter 29 verses 14 to 30 should not be seen
as an ancient story of just a man and the beginning of his family life. Rather
it should be taken as a contemporary story about all of us who cannot but make
important decisions in the journey of life, decisions which may determine our
character and destiny as they did in the life of Jacob.
Jesus Christ gave his support to holy marriage between a
male and a female, and saw it as a blessing from God to humanity, but he made
it clear that not everybody will get marry in life (Matt.19:1-12). It is
however obvious that Jacob's marriage was not an option at all, but a divine
arrangement for his future success and to as well bring God's promises to
fulfillment. The establishment of God's covenant and promises made to Abraham
(Gen.12:1-3, 28:1-4) depended much on Jacob's decision to marry, have his own
children and build his own family, which would eventually become the chosen
people of God. It could however be recalled that Jacob, having deceived his
father, Isaac, and rubbed his brother, Esau, ran away from his ancestral home
as advised by Rebekah his mother (Gen.27:41-46) You may as well re-call that
Jacob was further fortified at Bethel on his way to Padden Aram through the
gracious promises made to him by God (Gen.28:10-22) Indeed God was with Jacob
and ready to bless him according to the promises he made to Abraham, his
grandfather.
Jacob's fresh enthusiasm and his new outlook were the
direct result of the vision he received at Bethel (House of God), a great
revelation that God was going to protect him and prosper his journey. He knew
too well that the fulfillment of God's promises depended on his personal
decision which will also be directed by God. So on his arrival in the land of
the East, he resolved to water the flock of Rachel when he discovered that she
was the daughter of Laban, his uncle whom he had come to stay with.
(Gen.29:1-13). This singular act of Jacob portrayed him as generous,
industrious, energetic and a young man to be associated with. Thus Rachel took
the news of her meeting and interraction with Jacob to her father in a hurry.
This confirmed the notion that family ties were very strong in the ancient
East, and that visiting relatives, including those you have never met before,
would be entertained in the home of their own flesh and blood. No wonder, Jacob
was warmly welcomed by Laban into his home, and he honestly told his story to
his uncle (Gen.29:13-14) who later requested him to work for him and be paid
(Gen.29:15).
Here comes another important decision in the life journey
of Mr. Jacob. Within the first month of his stay in Laban's house, Jacob
performed well in his duty, and as well enjoyed every opportunity he had with
Rachel, the second daughter of Laban. In the excitement of that moment of
decision, which involved his acceptance of job offered to him by his uncle, and
the engagement to the love of his life, Rachel, Jacob did not realize that
Laban was a master schemer who would control his life for the next twenty
years. His joyful prospect of marriage to the beautiful Rachel became an
occasion for Laban's shrewdness and Jacob's discipline. Remember that Jacob and
Rebekah, his mother, had deceived his father and brother to gain blessing; now
his mother's brother deceived him to serve longer term for the purpose of love.
Surely, we shall all reap whatever we have sown (Gen.6:7) The man who deceived
his father was deceived by his father-in-law, and Jacob who presented himself
as the first born of Isaac now receives Leah, first born of Laban, as his wife
instead of the second. God in his grace forgives our sins when we confess them
(1John1:9), but in his government, God allows us to suffer the consequences of
those sins (Gal.6:8). Laban's deception was perfectly designed to make Jacob
aware of his own craftiness.
However, Jacob was determined to have Rachel not minding
what it will take him. He had a decision and was willing to do anything to
achieve his goal. Jacob was such a man who is ready to give whatever it takes
as long as he will get what he wants. Though Jacob complained bitterly about
the treatment given to him and Rachel, his beloved, by Laban, but he meekly
accepted his lot and agreed, resolved and decided to serve another seven years
just to have Rachel. At the end of Leah's marriage, Jacob married Rachel, the
woman after his heart and thus lived like a king in Laban's house for another
one week. But he later endured thirteen more years of hardship and conflict in
his father-in-law's house, not only because of the shrewdness of his in-law,
but also because of his decision in life.
Men and brethren, please note that there is no wisdom, no
insight, no decision, no plan which can succeed without the blessings of God.
For the Bible says; "So then neither he who plants is anything, nor he who
waters, but God who gives the increase." (1Cor.3:7). It is therefore
important for us to consult God before we make any decision in life and also
allow God's word to guide all our decisions.. Let us take all our plans to him
through prayers and allow him to lead and direct us in all our resolutions for
future. Young men and women who are waiting and searching for future partners
should seek God's mind and approval before making their choices. It is also
important for all our children in secondary schools to come to God in prayer
before choosing subjects for their future career so as to avoid "had I
know." All our divinely guided decisions will surely end in joy and
happiness. God was with Jacob and approved his decisions, hence he ended up
becoming the father of a great nation, Israel, which has twelve tribes. He
became a very wealthy man (Gen.30:43).
The decision of Joshua, son of Nun, to serve the Lord
together with his family brought sanity to the Israelites and influenced their
own decision to choose and serve the God of their fathers against all foreign
gods (Joh.24:15-16). Fathers and mothers, brothers and sisters in Christ,
please allow the Holy Spirit to guide your decisions and you will never make
mistakes (Rom. 8:26-28). If God is on our side, just as he was with Jacob, our
personal decision can never lead us to failure or disappoint us. "Commit
your ways to the Lord, Trust also in him, And he shall bring it to pass"
(Ps.37:5). Let us end this message with Hymn (MHB 504) composed by Georg
Neumark, (1612-81) and translated by Catherin Winkuorth, (1829-78):
1: LEAVE God to order all thy ways,
And hope in Him whate’er betide;
Thou’lt find Him in the evil days Thy
all-sufficient strength and guide: Who
trusts in God’s unchanging love Builds
on the rock that
nought can move.
2: Only thy restless heart keep still,
And wait in cheerful hope, content To
take whate’er His gracious will, His
all-discerning love, that sent; Nor doubt
our inmost wants are known To Him
who chose us for His
own.
3: Sing,pray,and swerve not from His
ways, But do thine own part faithfully;
Trust His rich promises of grace, So
shall they be fulfilled in thee: God
never yet forsook at need The soul that
trusted Him indeed
Let us pray
Rt. Rev. A.K.O. Ogunrinde, JP, FICT.
Bishop, Diocese of
Osogbo.
OS-CAN Chairman.




